How will you vote in the referendum? Please give your reasons

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Does life begin at conception or at birth? Abortion Debate in constitution review

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What are the study aids and tools for Biblical Interpretation?

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Is violence inherited? My friend's brother killed his wife! ?

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Mother-in-law getting into my nerves!!!!!!!!!!!!! ?

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How many friends do I have to have on facebook so I can get rid of progress bar?

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Is the Hague the best route to take for Kenyan politicians involved in the political violence of 2008?

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Whats the whole idea behind this website????

Asked By: thekenyan in Business & Finance - 76 days ago

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I have been sleeping with a celeb guy for the last 2 years, he is married and with a child and his public name is good and everyone knows his wife and child. I tested negative for HIV about a year and a half ago while i was still seeing him although we were using protection. About six months later, he claimed to have done his tests and he wanted me to do a test again which i did and was negative. We started having unprotected sex and it was very regular, he even paid for me to go with him on his music trips out of Kenya. I have not slept with anyone else for the whole time i have been seeing him, last month I went to donate blood and found out that I was HIV positive. I have done tests severally to confirm and I am sure of it. I feel so down and devastated, havent discussed it with him and we are still close, please advise, I feel so bitter about this and I cant pretend to be ok with him anymore, please let me know what you think I should do. Do not condemn me, I am already suffering the consequences of my actions.

Asked By: Lauryn in Celebrities - 83 days ago

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hello friends, my boyfriend is impotent..you can imagine how horrified i was when i found out?! Is this thing treatable, manageable, can one be impotent yet fertile? i gotta make a decision fast. he doesn't want to seek medical help, i guess he has gone through that for a while..(he cant talk about it anymore)kindly help, taking his feelings and my needs into account.

Asked By: Njeeri in Health - 87 days ago

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Tell me fellas, do you receive any kinda notification when someone replied to the question that you have posted here? I am curious to know that please help out.

Asked By: Sajjo in Genealogy - 97 days ago

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An old friend has a business in Kitale. I haven't seen or heard from him for 10 years now. Recently, he wrote to me through Facebbok and asked me for some money because he is short of capital and his business is not doing well. I am living in NZ with my family but he is not saying how much he really wants and I really don't like it since this leaves all windows open (options). I am thinking of giving him 50,000.00KS to help him out at this stage but don't know whether he is being honest with me. I will be travelling to Kenya in June this year and might meet up with him in Nairobi. Should I or should I not give him the money now? On the other hand, I am willing to give him up-to 200,000.00KS as long as I receive detailed profile about the business and how he is going to use the funds but would this be a good move. Am a business banking consultant/Accountant and I prefer to understand a business better before making any commitments. I need to decide asap so I can discuss it with my girlfriend further. What are your thoughts? Any ideas?

Asked By: Samburu83 in Other - Business & Finance - 105 days ago

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am inlove with my bestfriend and am afraid that i mit loose him if i tell him this.am afaid to loose both his friendship and the love i think to get frm him.wat do i do?

Asked By: renex in Friends - 105 days ago

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i had a guy 4 two years and i loved him.but he turned out to be an animal.he beat me up and i was pregnant 4 him.i left him after that long beating.now am afraid of loving again,of involving myslf with a man.i miss to b loved to be cared 4 and above all i miss the sex.will i stay lik this 4 ever?will i ever get sm1 to love me?

Asked By: renex in Arts & Humanities - 106 days ago

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Iam 30 years old.I used to be the kind that felt going out with a married man was wrong,until it happened to me,and honestly I want to end it.Here's how it all started and the complications. We were friends in high school and college.He cleared college a couple of years ahead of me.After college we lost touch.After I cleared college I got a job in the same town as him though all this time we were not communicating.In 2005 he called me up and was surprised we were working in the same town.We met for coffee later and then started going out as friends later we got intimate.In 2007 i felt I needed to end the relationship since he was a married man with a child so I talked to him told him we couldn't continue seeing each other even as friends since i had feelings for him.He didn't comment but left.Come Friday he called me up we go out for a drink and talk.Thinking it was about what I had earlier talked about i went but we ended in my bed afterr hanging out.The following Monday I was to travel out of town,so i wrote him a mail telling him I never wanted to see him again.On Thurssday,I came back to town and he texted saying he needed to talk to me urgently.Since It was a weekday I knew I was safe so we met for coffee.He went on to tell me he'd lost his job and since we'd been friends we talked about his situation.Now caught up in this i sympathised with him and eventually we started seeing each other again.he's still jobless 3 years later and I have stood by him all this while,I have paid his rent,paid his siblings fees paid his child's fees given him cash and I have never complained about anything nor wanted to end the affair.I want to start seeing other people,date and get married and raise my own family so how do I tell this guy I want to end it?I can still support him as a friend but not get intimate with him.I fear telling him anything since he may think am tired of helping him.Anyone who can help me with this one I'll be grateful.

Asked By: shyme in Other - Family & Relationships - 110 days ago

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Am planning to travel to Nairobi in three months for three weeks but me family and friends are telling me not to travel there because its risky. I haven\'t been back to Africa since me family moved to NZ. Am 27 years young. Don\'t know what to do. Should I travel to Kenya or should I not? by the way, I was born in Sudan but grew up in Kenya before moving here. Learning to speak in Swahili now but its HARD

Asked By: Samburu83 in Travel (General) - 130 days ago

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Why do women like free things? I give ma wife lunch daily, tops her airtime daily. I fuel our car alone but drop her at work daily and pick her jioni, and still I give her some extra money for fare just incase she decides to go back earlier. The funny thing is that I do everything in the hse as well (incld buying foodstuff even mboga etc until Im known by mama mbogas), she works too but her money goes to chama (of which I’m at times forced to pay for her) I was so pissed jana when I didn’t have money for fuel and I asked her for some which she gave, but come this morning I was surprised when I gave her money for lunch and she quickly grabbed it, yet im aware she has money coz Im the one she gave some to keep for her. Literally she spends zero on herself. She’s now telling me she needs cash for her hair, which I always pay for. Is this how it should be? We can’t discuss it, as she will blow to the rooftop and will sulk for weeks, as always, so I just keep quiet. But despite these, she is generally a good lady, so I sometime compromise for the sake of peace in the family.

Asked By: Fredrick in Family & Relationships - 134 days ago

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Dont you guys?

Asked By: Tavel in Computers & Internet - 135 days ago

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I don't have AIDS but i was curious what people thought. I just did a extra credit paper on a new experiment that uses the seeds of an Australian Chestnut tree to put AIDS in remission so it doesn't destroy healthy cells. While i was working on the paper i was wondering if people should be more open about their illness. I think that they should tell their partners about having AIDS because why would you hurt someone you love. Today it is possible to be with someone with AIDS, and minimize your chances of contracting AIDS.

Asked By: shygirl in Health - 237 days ago

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Am in a dilema, I am not dating anyone at the moment and there is this guy I have been hanging out with once in a while and we are kinda close and we have no-strings-attached sex once in a while. He has a girlfriend who is my former schoolmate and I know they love each other. I recently realized am pregnant and its his, we have been using protection all through but somehow something went wrong. I dont know how to approach this because there are so many things at stake, am still in school, he is not going to leave his girl for me and am not really ready for a child. Please advise me, what should i do? Please dont get religious on me, I know i messed, i want the way forward not cursing.

Asked By: bettyz in Green Living - 262 days ago

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My boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 months and we are incredibly happy together. We rarely fight, we do cute things for each other, ETC. I live in Maine and he is going to be moving to Washington (Across the country...) and I love him and want everything to work out. How do you make a long distance relationship work? I've never been in one before so I don't know what steps to take or what to expect. Thank you in advance, I Truly appreciate it.

Asked By: mariam in Family & Relationships - 292 days ago

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Ive been with my BF for over 18mos. Most of our relationship has been long distance because im in the military. Lately i feel like hes giving up on making it work because its too hard being apart. How can i keep him interested?

Asked By: kagiri in Family & Relationships - 292 days ago

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Because in all truth. There will be no religion in heaven. Atheists no rude comments and we know, to you there is no God. We get it.

Asked By: bernard in Card Games - 292 days ago

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Why is there so much strife over all different religions? I don't understand why a particular faith must try to convert another to try to save their souls, even if by such means as the crusades. It is unethical, and this is why there is freedom of religion in America; to prevent against such prejudice. We live in a world where killing mass numbers of people due to the causes of religion is acceptable. Where cults of people must have one religion be the same of theirs, and cannot tolerate differences. Why can people not get along and learn to accept that others are going to have different beliefs from them?

Asked By: kagiri in Card Games - 292 days ago

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I want any ground anywhere in the country.

Asked By: Tavel in Family & Relationships - 303 days ago

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Whats the difference between loving someone and being in love with them?

Asked By: Eunice in Italy - 304 days ago

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lol that's all i can do is lol, how pathetic

Asked By: mtanzania in Politics & Government - 310 days ago

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Ok, well every relationship i havehad never lasts more then a month and a half. I constantly search for what i did wrong in the past but all i can see that is wrong is the i might be to clingy or i worry alittle, but that shouldnt ruin every relationship.I always make sure that they person im dating knows i have trust issues and that im clingy. They say they don't mind , but in the end im single.I wanna know what i can do to change myself to have a long relationship.

Asked By: Suzzie in Italy - 314 days ago

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Roughly 10 months ago I had unprotected sex with someone, but it only lasted for a moment because he hurt me too much, and we had to stop. (a.k.a. he never came.) I recently heard from his friend that he has slept with a lot of girls and has even engaged in anal sex. I know that the chances that e is infected are slim, but if he is, what are the chances that he passed it on to me considering he never came? Also, we are both white 19 year olds, and i'm a girl, if that helps. Thank you for your help.

Asked By: mariam in Health - 335 days ago

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This is a great site. Thanks for the good work. Those who agree say “I DO”.

Asked By: jamo in Beauty & Style - 344 days ago

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I have my laptop connected to wireless running windows 7 and I want to use internet sharing with etherent to my desktop how can I do this?

Asked By: Suzzie in Insurance & Registration - 345 days ago

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I read my boyfriend messages and i seen some stuff i didn't like...he was talking to an ex and just to sum it all up he told her we were not together and that he wants to be with her....im going to catch him off guard and confront him...but i just need to know is that cheating or do actions speak louder then words??? please no stupid answers thank you.

Asked By: Anonymous in Family & Relationships - 345 days ago

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Or is it that we often confuse the hurt with hate? Betrayal is truly painful, especially when inflicted by those close to us. Or worse, when betrayed by a loved one. And then suddenly the love turns into hate … or is it really hate we feel? How does one recover from a betrayal?

Asked By: Anonymous in Family & Relationships - 345 days ago

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instead of going into the poorer neighborhoods of america? do you think it's all about the publicity? i do. i believe that they'd get better publicity if they actually adopted american children. improve the lives of american children before you try to save the world. this applies to asian babies as well. that's my 2¢, what's urs?

Asked By: Suzzie in Society & Culture - 345 days ago

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Asked By: lernes in Family & Relationships - 346 days ago

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I have to submit an essay for my English class, and my topic is about sex, and not just sex, but sex before marriage. In East, it is a taboo, but in West countries, it's normal. In your opinion, is it acceptable to have sex before marriage, even if the two people really love each other. I don't care if you're from West or East, please answer it according to your moral value. I need to get all the information I can get before writing the essay.

Asked By: Suzzie in Family & Relationships - 346 days ago

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is it like, too risky for a beginner?

Asked By: bettyz in Beauty & Style - 346 days ago

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is it like, too risky for a beginner?

Asked By: bettyz in Beauty & Style - 346 days ago

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i want to go into trading... any advice on obtaining an internship in one of these fields. i.e. where to look, what to do, etc., etc.

Asked By: Jackie in Beauty & Style - 346 days ago

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I've heard quite a few different answers from people who think they know.

Asked By: bernard in Beauty & Style - 347 days ago

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I know there is a place to disable a facebook account, but when you login again, you just get activated. I think am addicted and I need to completely delete my account, how can i do that?

Asked By: bongogal in Computers & Internet - 347 days ago

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i had a guy 4 two years and i loved him.but he turned out to be an animal.he beat me up and i was pregnant 4 him.i left him after that long beating.now am afraid of loving again,of involving myslf with a man.i miss to b loved to be cared 4 and above all i miss the sex.will i stay lik this 4 ever?will i ever get sm1 to love me?

Asked By: renex in Arts & Humanities - 106 days ago

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Would you have your ex as your best pal? Does that ever work or would it unwound the past?

Asked By: Alicia in Family & Relationships - 343 days ago

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is it like, too risky for a beginner?

Asked By: bettyz in Beauty & Style - 346 days ago

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